“It’s rare that a scientifically verified program is actually so successful. This book is a must read for anyone interested in helping or understanding relationships.”
—John Gottman, author of Fight Right
“Make it safe to connect. Decide don’t slide. Do your part.” These are the three keys the authors of Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Building a Lasting Love (Jossey-Bass; September 11, 2024, 978-1-3942202-9-8; Trade Paperback) have used to help millions of people live better and happier lives with their partners.
Since 2020 there have been many changes in how we live. One of the most fundamental differences is how both online dating and job mobility have provided opportunities to meet and fall in love with partners who come from different backgrounds, cultures, religions, and more. This has added new dynamics to solving conflicts, and it is common for partners to fight about issues without coming to comfortable resolutions they can work on together. Fighting For Your Marriage contains research-based strategies and tools for averting heated, destructive arguments while increasing mutual understanding and closeness,
Some of the new challenges Fighting for Your Marriage can help couples navigate are:
- Strongly divided political views: Political differences between partners can cause tension and distance. It doesn’t have to be that way.
- Major differences in cultural backgrounds: Partners may have different holiday, food and meal customs that create stress at family gatherings and burden their relationship.
- Power and love imbalances and asymmetrical relationships: When one person is more invested in the relationship than the other, a relationship faces many threats – that can be overcome.
- Social media and digital habits: Couples learn to deal with conflicts over how much time is spent on social media or what is shared.
- How to keep love, fun, friendship and sex alive at any age or stage in a relationship: In a world rife with international crises and economic stress, relationships suffer from the loss of renewal that comes from positive times together.
Fighting For Your Marriage is full of examples of couples and conflicts as well as thoughtful questions for discussion and resources at the end of each chapter. The book makes it possible for people to learn how to approach their partners and make positive changes without having to contemplate the last resort options of separation and divorce.
Fighting for Your Marriage
Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Building a Lasting Love
By Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, Galena K. Rhoades, and Janice R. Levine
Publisher: Jossey-Bass (a division of Wiley)
Publication Date: September 11, 2024
Paperback ISBN: 978-1-3942202-9-8
Original Trade
Price: $25
352 pp